Contemplation

I'm using contemplate this time, instead of reflect. The latter has been over-used. People gets tired when asked to reflect. Institution uses it so often now that it's become a chore to many, erasing its supposedly pure form. Human always succeed in trampling the flower.

The topic of contemplation here is about relationships. Relationship with your environment and people. It's inspired by my girlfriend currently on an exchange programme.

I find the crux of contemplation apt in Confucius' teaching.
I take the quote out of context: 三人行，必有我师. Literally, when three people walk together, there must be one who will be my teacher.

This is how we contemplate and learn from one another.

I did something similar before, let's try it again. For those who are interested, join me.
List 10 or more friends and write what we have learnt from them.

jt- cherishing the people and present; having the courage to break away
zu- self-less giving; faith in giving and taking
lian- going beyond customary aid and care
hru- the OL mentality and determination
lan- balancing different aspects of life and finding relief when it calls for
wchang- detailed and encouraging
rl- sensitive and clear-headed in resolving issues to their causes
zs- to endear whole-heartedly and listening in
kly- holding to the ground and attentive to individual
dd- resolved and single-minded
mm- having interest to the people and surrounding; maintaining harmony